The last two days have been a little crazy. Yesterday, I planned to stay home all day, which I did, mostly. It worked out really well because we had to have a planning meeting for our awards dinner. I had also volunteered to babysit for a girl I visit teach so she could go school shopping. Whereas it was all good, it was a madhouse! I had my 5 and 5 extras all 6 and under. Two were babies of the girls I was meeting with so I wasn't the only adult, but we were busy which left them kinda "free reign". It was so noisy! I had gotten stuff out to do some crafts thinking that would buy me a little settled down time. It did - about 10 min. Then I was just left with a table and floor full of cut up gluey scraps. It got to be about lunch time so Brooklyn decided to make DinoNuggets for everyone. She did a really good job, but what a mess. It was quite humorous and I think everyone had a good time so what the heck. It didn't take too long to get my house back to livable and then I tried to take a nap, yeah, that didn't happen. I got up to fix dinner (exactly according to the menu) when Chelsey said I was carpooler for her trip to troupe practice. There were 5 on the way there. They are older and well behaved, but I was about to go nuts with the noise. I couldn't get them out fast enough. If you know me at all, you know I REALLY need my quiet, down time. Haven't had much of that so I'm a little anxious. I was supposed to go hang out at my mom's while Glade did some "honey do's" for her when all of a sudden - Brilliant! "Mom, wouldn't you just love to have a sleep over with my kids tonight??" She is the best mom ever and said "sure". I love her. I packed em up, drove em over and came home to my mostly empty house (still had school kids and a baby). I got things settled and went to bed! Now for the creepy part. I got up to go to the bathroom and when I turned on the light, something black scurried into my closet and disappeared. Now, it was small for a mouse but very large for anything else. And it was black, not gray. I did a little poking around to see if I could find it, but no luck. Try to go back to sleep now!! I'm pretty sure it must have been an Africanized tarantula. That or some kind of alien pest. Either way, I haven't been in my closet since. I stood at the edge and stretched to get my clothes. I'm so grossed out!
Today
After a very creepy night with crazy, buggy dreams. I got around and headed to pick up my kids. Today is movie day and my mom always comes with us. The movie actually turned out cute much to my surprise. Katy was a terror. This was our last one, so that trip is now done for the summer. I thought maybe a little "mall therapy" would do me good. I don't know why my mom didn't give me a thunk on the head and say "what are you thinking?" Taking 6 kids to the mall the week before most schools start was a little crazy. They didn't do too bad, but it was very crowded and it certainly wasn't the therapy I was looking for! We didn't stay long, got what we needed, had lunch and went home. Today was registration for my littler ones so I got to go fill out all the info cards, that's always fun. Got my kids AIMS test results. They did really well, I was kinda surprised. Two of them even exceeded in Math. Amazing. Had a little nap (still creeped out being in my room) then headed to the gym. I haven't lost any weight in the last couple weeks, but I haven't gained either so I guess that's good. The boys are out doing the yard. The movie today inspired me to try the garden again this year. I'm going to get it ready so its planted on time and hopefully we can be successful. I really need to go shower, but then I would have to go into the closet. Hmmmmm, big dilemma.
Thursday, July 31, 2008
Nuggets for 10, Africanized Tarantula,and Mall Madness
Tuesday, July 29, 2008
Almost Recovered - School Starts
I have most the laundry done and my house is almost back to normal. I'm still organizing like crazy! So many things I want to do and here I sit talking about it, crazy. Yesterday my three oldest started school. They all had a really good day. Whitley was really nervous but said it was "so fun!". She has friends in all her classes but Spanish but loved that class anyway. Chelsey was same-old same-old but loves being there. She didn't get to do advanced dance which she tried out and made due to a scheduling conflict. She was really sad and had to take beginning dance again just to get the half credit she needed. When she showed up to dance her teacher asked what was going on. After explaining why, the teacher asked her what she was doing next semester and offered for Chelsey to be her aid. She was very excited! Nick started off a little rough, but came home and said he loved his teachers and was very excited. I still worry about his friends, but nothing I can do about that so I just keep praying! They all brought home their supply lists as well. In reading Heather's post about loving school supplies, I would have to agree. However, big kid supplies are a whole nother story. It cost me $80 to fulfill their lists and that's not any of the "wish list" things. Every year I get myself all bent out of shape about this. It's a public school with funding and I'm buying all the supplies. I get notebooks and some folders and such, but come on, their own stapler?? White board markers, copy paper, correcting pens, calculators, flash drives???? Chelsey was asked to buy a $100 calculator and was told she probably couldn't pass the class without it. Something is definitely wrong with this picture!
Anyway, (breathe, Laurie, breathe) we did it and its done. Makes me more grateful for my other kids school where they just ask you to bring a box to put all the supplies THEY buy for you.
I read a really good article on parenting in the Ensign this morning. I'm hoping to implement some of the suggestions in to my days. Patience, understanding and humor. Should be interesting. I'm really getting a lot of practice with my little ones still home. I keep taking deep breaths and thinking "only one more week and then they won't have time to destroy my house and spend hours on the computer." I'm most excited to turn my cute three year old back into a "cute three year old". Today I heard him yell from upstairs "YOU CAN'T MAKE ME!" and "YOU'RE NOT THE BOSS OF ME!" He didn't talk like that pre-summer. I have lots of fun ambitions for Bo, Katy and I once the kids are back to school. We all know how that can go, lots of ambition, little action. Let's hope that's not the case!
Monday, July 28, 2008
We're back
The thought of posting a whole vacation is daunting. So much to report and so many pictures. You will have to be patient with this because it's definitely a journal entry for me to remember our family vacation. I guess I will break it into events.
The Temple
Sunday, July 27, 2008
Tuesday, July 22, 2008
Let me Clarify
Ok, so the feedback that I'm getting is that everyone likes to buy nice things once in awhile. If I made it seem like I don't, I totally misled you. There are definitely things I spend money on, my perfume for example - not cheap! I also buy mostly name brand stuff for cleaning and showering stuff. I think there's something to be said for quality. The point I was trying to make about the backpack really applied to the backpack. An 8 yr old child does not or should not know the difference in a Roxy or Walmart brand backpack. Not to mention the way an 8 yr old treats a backpack. All I'm saying is to spend that kind of money on something a child doesn't REALLY care about is a waste. I love nice things, a little too much even, but it bugs me to see 3 yr olds in converse shoes. (unless you got them at the thrift store!) That is strictly for the parents and I personally feel it's vain and worldly to spend that much money needlessly. I'm sure I have totally offended someone but please take it with a grain of salt. I'm not and never have been much of a name brand person. Again, I do believe some brands are better than others and worth the price. I would like to believe that if I had oodles of money, I would still shop sensibly. Who knows. Summary: I think it's unnecessary to spend that much money on a backpack for a child - That's all I was saying!
Monday, July 21, 2008
Thanks for Being Born
Today was a busy but good day. Happy Birthday to Amy and Sherry! My FIL Steve's birthday was yesterday. We have a great family tradition of going out to lunch for birthdays. Today we went to BJ's. It was my first time and it was pretty good. I have to say there wasn't much that would fit into a healthy diet. I'm positive the pazookie I ate wasn't on the plan! I woke up with every intention to get to the gym. I had gotten my clothes out and everything. Then the eye place called and said Nick's glasses were ready. The timing of everything was not working out for me to get stuff done, get to the gym and be to lunch by noon. I didn't make it to the gym. I was a little sad today, I was really feeling it. Another day.
While waiting to leave today, I was searching online for a backpack for Chelsey. She doesn't want the kind with lots of pockets and pouches. Just a plain ol' backpack. I found several that were $25 or $30 or more, but that is out of my common sense range. This is a funny story because one of my more irritating experiences was being in Tilly's one day and watching a mom and her two girls of about 8 and 10. She pointed to the wall and said "pick a backpack, whatever you want". My irritation was because she could have done the same thing at Wal-Mart and they would have found something they totally loved and would have cost her 1/4 of what she paid. I hate parents who from very young teach their kids that they have to have expensive things with certain names on them. Sorry if I offended anyone. So to make a long story short, I joke about people who buy backpacks from Tilly's. Wellllll, in showing Chelsey how expensive they were, I had windows with 3 different online stores up. I was going through and explaining that what she wants isn't cheap. She was scrolling down Tilly's selection and commenting how ugly they were and not worth that much money when all of the sudden.....clearance. There was a super cute pink and white plaid backpack just like she wanted for $14.97. Guess who bought a backpack from Tilly's??
After a very big lunch, I raced home and picked up Whitley to take her to registration. We got there and her schedule was a mess. She was still in AVID which they told us they had taken her out..NOT. She was also scheduled to be in Men's Choir and Advanced Aerobics. Two very odd selections for Whitley. We went to the counselor and they got her out of all three. She is now in Girl's Choir, Spanish, and Honors Biology. She has a tough schedule this year. Luckily she is in many classes with her good friends. That eased her mind quite a bit about starting high school. The cherry on top - while waiting in line, I started talking to the woman behind us. They just moved here 3 days ago from Kansas. She had a boy Whitley's age. She also has a girl that will be starting Payne. I probably haven't mentioned this, but I volunteered to be the VP of the PTO at Payne. There are only 2 other people on the whole committee. I decided to help out. I mentioned it to her and now she is going to be on it as well. I have also recruited two other people which makes a board of 6! It's tripled - crazy.
FHE - We ARE a family and we WERE home. During our very thrown together dinner, it started raining really hard. Of course - "can we play in the rain???" Out they went. They were playing so nice together (quite a switch) that I couldn't bear to bring them in. They stayed outside for about an hour. It was great. So though there was no official gathering, song or prayer, it was one of the more peaceful and pleasant evenings we've had in a long time!
Sunday, July 20, 2008
When there's nothing to do - eat cinnamon
Sometimes when there's a large group of people and not enough to do, weird things happen. It started with a conversation about things people have seen on YouTube. We tried making popcorn pop with cell phones, that didn't work. That's when the cinnamon controversy began. Chelsey has a friend who tried it and is on YouTube. Nick said he would give it a whirl. This video is the result of that experiment. Nick is first and then there is a little down time, wait through it because Stephen is after that and it's definitely worth watching. I wish I had had control of the videoing. I won't say who did, but you miss some of the best parts! Anyway, have a look...
Some other funny tidbits of the day- Bo was standing at the top of the stairs and yelled "Hey! Smell my muscles!" What he meant was: Stephen put deodorant on him and he wanted us to know how good his armpits (muscles) smelled.
At church, a lady (who used to be our primary chorister) was giving a talk and was telling the story of the ant and the grasshopper. The theme was being prepared. In the middle of her story, she posed the question, do you think that the ant closed it's door to the grasshopper? Rhett pipes up and says "Yeah!" Then realizes he is in sacrament and says "oops". Hey, at least he was listening!
During our primary class, which is made up of all boys, my sweet little daughter starts ripping some loud, juicy ones. (Sorry for the graphics) As you can imagine, the boys thought that was soooo funny. Their laughter spawned her laughing this devil laugh she has. We finally got them settled back down and she did it again. I was crying I was laughing so hard. Good example, huh? I decided to take her out. We walked around for awhile so she could finish if she needed to. After a few minutes, I took her in and changed her. We went back to class where they were so reverently listening to my partner talk about sharing the gospel. She did it again! At this point I just decided to remove her for good. To dad she went! I felt so bad for Cyndi, the boys were actually listening and being good and Katy kept ruining it. Sorry Cyndi! I'm happy to say this was her last week NOT in nursery. Yeah for 18 months!
It wasn't a dull Sunday to say the least!
Saturday, July 19, 2008
It's working
Today was back to normal, mostly. With half my family gone, I was left with no where to go and nothing much to do. Since we are leaving out of town on Wednesday, I decided to get all my laundry done AND put away. It was a very quiet day. My littler ones mostly watched TV and played together while I had a Sandra Bullock marathon and hung up laundry. I watched While You Were Sleeping and then Lake House. Hope Floats was next, but I never got there. I think While You Were Sleeping has to be my favorite movie of all time. I'm sure I've seen it 20+ times and I love it every singe time. I even cried today. I did take a break from all the laundry to have a nap! (I WAS up at 5 am to get my girls to the church.) I actually got it all done and kept on my kids until all theirs was put away as well. Not an easy thing to do! Now I can start packing. This will be a much nicer trip to pack for. No dirt involved.
After my nice long nap, I took a shower and got ready for my date. Our friends cancelled on us which turned out to be OK because we ended up with no babysitter. We just went to a quick dinner and Wal Mart to pick up some last minute things. Last week Katy wore her cute little Sunday shoes to church. We always put em on and take em off all through sacrament. Today she brought them to me to put on, she loves shoes. I couldn't even come close to getting them in there. I held it to the bottom of her foot and her toes went past the end! How does that happen in a week?? We had to be back by 8 to take the girls to the dance so everything worked out well.
The kids had a great time at the lava tubes. Stephen "fell" into the water which is so great because he wasn't packing any extra clothes. I insisted he go get some "just in case". He was really annoyed with me. I'm guessing he quietly contemplated the genius of his mother when he was standing there soaking wet! Whitley fell and hurt her knee, but it didn't keep her from the dance. It started to rain on them right at the start of their picnic lunch. All in all it was a good trip.
I bought my last pack of socks today and that completes my school shopping. We will get back in town next Sunday and my 3 oldest start the next morning. Feels good to be organized. At the end of summer I'm always gung ho for schedules and order then by about February I'm totally ready for "NOT".
My less stress seems to be working. I didn't freak out when I didn't get to the gym today. It would have taken some jumping through hoops and I just wasn't going to do it. When we went to dinner, I didn't scour the menu for something that looked healthy. I just got what I wanted and ate half. I was plenty full and not stressed about going over my points or that I didn't work out today. Maybe a little break is just what I need to get myself back to motivated. Just don't let me break too long!
Friday, July 18, 2008
What an UN-day!
I'm a good thinker. I think a lot. Sometimes this drives my spouse a little crazy. So I was thinking, I have done miserably at sticking to my workout and diet. This stresses me out. I'm a stress eater. Do you see where I'm going with this? Probably the biggest issue is my lack of patience with my kids right now. The impending return to school brings both joy and anxiety. I have two more weeks until my life returns to normalcy. I'm giving myself those two weeks off. Not sabotaging or going crazy, just not making it my priority right now. I'm hoping taking that stress off will help me be less stressed. It makes sense in my mind!
On to my UN-day. In keeping with the theme of less stress, I took the day off. Literally, I did nothing. I'm still in my pajamas. Because it was a planned day off, I didn't stress about it. My house is a wreck! I did do some laundry, sort of. It's all in the middle of my living room floor. It used to be in nice stacks, but that's as far as it made it so now it's strewn all about. Since I planned on doing nothing, I didn't even care that I had to keep stepping over things! I didn't cook. I let my kids do mostly whatever they wanted. They actually spent the entire morning out playing in the irrigation. One cute little thing, Bo and I were laying down for a nap (all that doing nothing makes one tired)and somehow Heavenly Father came up and Bo asked where He was. I said In Heaven. He asked "why". Hmmm, this is a difficult concept for a 3 year old. He wasn't real hip on the dying and going to live with him thing. I told him he didn't have to. Sheesh, that stuff's hard!
Stephen and Nick left for an overnighter around noon and Chelsey left the same time to go with friends. She won't be back till late. Glade left at 2 for the same campout. The girls are leaving at 6 am to go meet them and go through the lava tubes up in Flagstaff.
I spent much of my UN-day working on making my blog into a book. Other than being a little stressful choosing page layouts, color schemes and such, I think it will be really neat. Might be a bit cheesy, but I will love to have a permanent copy.
So this is my final entry that will be printed in my book. Then I'll have to start a new one!
Picures of irrigation. No, Katy isn't drinking it!
Thursday, July 17, 2008
The Party - Sweet Sixteen
This party is still in full swing and this is me escaping it! They are noisy and silly. I'm sure I was never like that! It got off to a very rushed start. We had to go register her at school and her schedule wasn't right so it took forever to get it fixed. Then we had to go get the food and cake. Her party started at 5 pm and we didn't get home until 4:35. We were totally scrambling to get things set up. Luckily only a few people showed up on time. She ended up with a total of 25 people, I think. Unfortunately I overestimated the appetites of teenagers. I ordered 2 six foot subs. They ate half of one. Yikes! Once most got here, they started the water games. Two teams, two buckets and two sponges. You had to get water in the sponge, run with it over your head and squeeze it into the other bucket. First team to fill it wins. It was pretty fun. We had 3 Chinese foreign exchange students here. One of them would REFILL his sponge when he got to the bucket so technically he was taking water out instead of putting it in. After that, they did slip and slide grown up style. A big tarp with some baby shampoo. Once the water games were done, they pretty much just hung out, jumped on the tramp and giggled. She's cute. Her friends are really great. They were so polite and not intimidated by parents. I'm very proud of her.
Sweet 16 cake
Man I'm cranky
Ok, no one is really interested in my woes, but I feel like whining, so there! First let me say, I LOVE my kids and they are really really great. Second, some of them may not live to see the weekend! Heavenly Father knew what he was doing when he took away our knowledge, thus requiring us to go to school, thus allowing the parents time to regroup so no bodily harm comes to any of His precious children! I don't know who is presently living in my home, but it's not the children I raised. I didn't raise kids who eat with their hands and stuff garbage under the cushions. I didn't raise kids that lie and sneak and flick their baby brother just for the fun of it. I didn't raise kids who on the way to a movie whine and complain about having to SHARE a popcorn. These are not the wonderful, sweet children I have been teaching. I want them back! I'm hoping that they are away on a fun vacation and will come replace these nasty little clone people soon. Whew....Ok, so they aren't THAT bad, but.....
Tonight is Chelsey's party. The one she did so well at keeping low key. Yeah, she went from "about 22" to "did I mention I invited 35?" I said "i hope you you're not that hungry cuz I only got food for 20!" That girl. We are on our way to the school to get her schedule and all that good stuff. Another crazy day driving out in the heat. I would way rather be napping! I'll have some good pictures to post tomorrow.
Thanks for the inspiration Camille: "Thou shalt not kill". It's been helpful!
A sucker for time wasters
A * Age: 37
B * Birthday: 3-3 hence 3 being my fav number!
C * Cake or candy: cake
D * Desserts I love: Yep, I love desserts! (brownies, pie, anything chocolate)
E * Easiest Person to Talk to: Other than the obvious, my mom, I'd have to say Leslie.
F * Favorite Song: I don't do favs too much, I love so many. You're Still the One - Shania
G * Gold or Silver: white gold
H * Habit: Chapstick right before bed, without fail
I* Instruments you play: I can sorta still play the flute a little
J * Job Title: The list would be too long, anyone in my profession will understand when I say "mom"
K * Kiddies: 9
L * Lust or Love: Lustfully in Love
M * Married, Single, or Taken: Married
N * Next to you: a whole lotta crap! (cell phone, mp3, post-its, empty cup, golf balls, camera)
O * One Wish: Hmmm....just one? And that I can confess?? I was already skinny
P * Person you called last: Glade, of course.
Q * Quote: Grrrrr!
R * Reason to smile: the sound of silence when the kids go back to school
S * Steak or Pork: Nope. Chicken
T * Turns you on: Glade chewing gum. funny, I know.
U * Unique Talent: I have no real performable talents. Tyler calls me "crazy eyes" cuz I can do this weird thing with my eyes when I roll them. Does that count?
V * Veggie: corn on the cob
W * woke up at: first woke up about 10:45, then Bo woke me up with wet Pj's at 4 am, then Glade woke me up at 6 am, then I finally got out of bed at 8:15. Not a good night!
X * X-rays: Teeth, elbow, and foot.
Y * Your favorite color: Yellow
Z * Zodiac sign: Pisces
Now I get to tag someone so I choose....Julia and Sherri
Tuesday, July 15, 2008
Clothes, Malls, Lunch and Water!
Today started with the task of going through everyone's clothes to make sure we had everything we needed for school. Yuck! This also means I have to actually go IN to their rooms, not a good thing. Needless to say there was some clearing out that went on! Most of them had way more clothes than I even knew about. My question "Why do you never wear these??" I see them in the same stained up, chewed on, holey shirts day in and day out. Up in their closets, perfectly nice shirts, some still with tags. Nick was the worst. He has just about dethroned Chelsey as psycho weird kid with absolutely no good reason for why he won't wear something. These are the things I heard: "uh-uh-uh" "it's kinda red" "the pockets feel funny" "just not to school" and again "uh-uh-uh". Sigh again! He is definitely off the list of kids I will buy things for when they are not with me. So I put a bunch of really cool shirts up for Rhett next year. He's the best - "I'll wear that."
After realizing they all have way too many clothes, and now having nice clean rooms, we decided to go to lunch. Tuesdays are our go out to lunch day. Gets us out of the house. No one could agree on where to go so Chelsey with her brilliant mind suggests we go to the mall where there are lots of options. Everyone thought that sounded fun. We decided to go to the outdoor mall that was close by. I know, OUTDOOR in AZ?? Anyway, we ate pizza and Panda and then did a little exploring. I knew they had a water play area but I didn't tell anyone. I did bring towels though. I was surprised not many wanted to play. Whitley, Rhett, Brooklyn and Dalin all went and spent the whole time looking in Build a Bear. Stephen and Nick went to a few of the "cool" stores and looked around. Bo and Katy loved the water area. Chelsey and I sat and watched them play. Katy wasn't sure at first, but then she really liked it. Bo was crazy, of course. Eventually Brooklyn came and played too. Nick and Stephen would come back every so often and say "We have a deal..." "Give us $10 and...." My standard answer "no!" Here are a few pictures of our afternoon.
Katy first discovering the water
"come on, the water's fine!"
Yes, it's the Smith butt crack
Bathing Beauty Brooklyn
I like to call this one "free bird"
This is right after one got her in the face
(embarrassed) this is Bo "peeing"
(he's not really peeing, but that's what he said...BOYS!)